Sometimes, life feels like a stage, doesn’t it? Like people are watching, waiting for us to mess up. It’s a feeling I’ve wrestled with—this fear of not being perfect, of being judged, of falling short. But let’s get real: most people aren’t actually paying attention to every move we make. That’s just fear talking.
And fear? Fear is a clear signal—it’s the direction we need to step into.
In Judges 16:25-27, Samson found himself on display, surrounded by people mocking him. They were watching, laughing, and expecting him to fail. But Samson didn’t let the spectacle define him. In that moment, he turned to God, found strength, and stepped into his purpose, even when it seemed impossible.
For me, stepping into fear feels like walking into the unknown, especially now. I’m coming out of a four-year funk—a season that felt like a never-ending lesson. Four years! It’s like I’ve been stuck in a grade I was never meant to repeat. But here’s the good news: it’s graduation time.
To graduate from this season, I know I need to face my fears head-on. Fear wants to paralyze me, keep me small, and tell me I’m not enough. But I’ve realized that every time I step into what scares me, I come out stronger. It’s like passing a test I didn’t think I could handle.
But graduating isn’t just about doing the hard things. It’s also about being emotionally and mentally stronger—being steadfast in who I am. I can’t wallow in guilt, shame, or people-pleasing anymore. Those things don’t serve me, and they don’t serve God’s purpose for my life.
Instead, I’m choosing to stay rooted in my truth. And that truth is this: I am God’s daughter. I am strong. I am a fighter, a lover, a businesswoman, a mother, and a friend. But not everyone gets to experience those parts of me. I’ve learned to ask myself:
- Am I drained or energized by this person?
- Am I acting out of character?
- Am I compromising my self-worth?
If the answers don’t align with who I am, then those people don’t get access to the best parts of me. And that’s okay.
People can watch me all day if they want. Let them! If they’re going to watch, I want them to see God’s glory shining through my life. I want them to see someone who stepped into fear, who trusted God, and who walked out stronger, freer, and closer to her purpose.
So here’s my challenge to you: what fear are you facing? What’s the thing that feels impossible right now? Step into it. Walk through it. Trust that God is with you, and remember—you’re not just surviving this season; you’re preparing to graduate into the next one.
Let’s grow, step into fear, and shine. God’s glory is waiting to be revealed through you.